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  • my eyes hurt a lot, but thinking about this makes me smile sometimes...

    My eyes are hurting so much lately... I spend a lot of time being angry with eye docs. Then I found a thought that whilst not exactly positive and healthy, actually makes me smile. I don't remember where it came from or even if it was an original thought.

    Most ophthalmologists are men, right? And most sufferers of dry eye, especially severe dry eye, are women, right?

    So, dry eye hurts us women in the most sensitive part of our body. What if there wasn't a dry eye syndrome but instead a syndrome that only affected men... in the most sensitive part of their anatomy?

    Can you imagine if there was a very common disease that made men experience the pain and sensations we do, in a different part of their body? Can you imagine if men spent all day with the burning, itching, the urge to rub certain parts of their body, the stabbing pains... along with erosions and maybe ulcerations and inflammation and scarring, plus at times excessive "reflex" discharge at inconvenient times, like whilst doing a presentation at work. Imagine these guys having to clean the crust off with q-tips and baby shampoo several times a day. Having severe redness and enlarged veins that made people ask "what happened to your..." and really affected the man's self esteem and made him just want to hide at home. Feeling like he always had sand in there... having to use cold compresses and lubricants at his desk at work all day (co-workers giggling and talking about him).

    If this disease happened in this way to men... we would probably have a cure already... and it would have a much more serious sounding name than "dry" and everyone would understand and sympathise and there would be so much help available for these poor guys...

    We can only dream. (No offense intended to male dry eye sufferers)

  • #2
    Poppy, that is wicked funny!!!! LOL! I especially like the part of cold compresses all day long at their desks! heheheheh

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    • #3
      hehe, I can't imagine having all my eye-problems downstairs
      But funny thought though
      The cure: be open minded

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      • #4
        LMAO... sooo funny! (Thinking it would be especially funny for my Lasik surgeon to get a taste of this just long enough to make him try to be a better doctor who has half a clue about severe dry eye... not saying I'd wish this on anyone as a permanent thing... but just long enough for him to learn a lesson )

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        • #5
          One I forgot. I bet these guys would also have online support groups where they would post stuff like:

          "They (the doctors) just don't seem to care about our quality of life at all. I was telling my doc how I couldn't enjoy my favourite activities anymore because of the pain, and she just said, well, you can pee quite well according to our chart, and that was all she cared about"

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          • #6
            That was great!! Thank you so much for the laugh!! It is all SO VERY TRUE! I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy, at least not permanently . . . but it sure would help if others had just an inkling of how devastating this can be!!

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            • #7
              Truer words were never spoken! That was really cute!

              Just look at the ads for Viagra and Cialis, etc... Look at the statistics of how men having heart attack symptoms are given so much more validity than a woman who goes to the ER with chest discomfort......heck look at salary differences that still exist in the workforce even today!

              Men vs women aside - I also wouldn't wish eye pain on ANYONE, but I do wish the medical community would give it more validity. I am new here but have seen 5 doctors so far and none can seem to take the time or effort to help.

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              • #8
                Haha. We should definitely have a comedy section about our daily experiences and to help lighten the mood more often.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Jenn1 View Post
                  Haha. We should definitely have a comedy section about our daily experiences and to help lighten the mood more often.
                  Absolutely! We can either laugh or cry about this nasty condition... I'd rather laugh! (Yes, I've had my share of crying over this... just saying the less of that the better... )

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